However, this matter was originally a tangled matter, and even if Fu Hua gave any explanation, it would be difficult to explain the matter properly.
Fu Hua went and hugged Xie Zimin, trying to comfort her. Fortunately, Xie Zimin's body was not resistant to him. He let him hold it, and reached out and touched his face. He smiled and said, "Okay, you don't have to worry about me. I'm fine. Don't be embarrassed because of me. , If Zheng Li comes back, you think it’s not good to have a relationship with me again, we will end, okay?"
The body can't lie. Fu Hua believed that Xie Zimin was not angry with him. It was not easy for this woman to be so tolerant to him. So moved, he hugged Xie Zimin tightly and said, "Zimin, it's still you to me. it is good."
The next day, Fu Hua and Xie Zimin returned to Beijing. On the night of returning to Beijing, Fu Hua went to Zheng Lao's house. He went with a heart of shame. When he saw Zheng Lao and the old lady, he peeked at the expressions on their faces. Fortunately, the old lady and Zheng didn't look particularly upset on their faces, and they didn't give him anything. Look at his face, otherwise he really doesn't know how to deal with himself.
After greeting the two, Mr. Zheng looked at him and said, "Fu Hua, are you going to stop going to my door?"
Fu Hua blushed and said, "Grandpa, I don't want to come, but I am really shameless. I have done something wrong. I'm sorry Xiaoli. You and grandma scold me. If you scold me, I feel better. ."
Zheng Lao waved his hand at Fu Hua and said, "You don't need to be like this. I know the ins and outs of the matter. After all, I can't blame you for this matter. I think Xiaoli took Fu Jin to France these days. Are you punished enough?"
Fu Hua nodded and said with a wry smile: "Yes, I miss Xiaoli and Fu Jin very much, but I don't even dare to call them now."
Having said that, Fu Hua felt a little guilty in his heart. Zheng Li left these days. It was not that he had a painful life, because Zheng Li refused to forgive him because of his injury. He and Xie Zimin were together in private. Xie Zimin's tolerance And warmth, let him spend this time is still very good.
Of course, this is not to say that she does not want Zheng Li to come back to her, Zheng Li is still very important to him, and Fu Jin is an important weight, if at this moment Fu Hua is in Zheng Li and Xie Zimin’s If he chooses between them, he must choose Zheng Li.
Old Zheng said: "You want a son, you treat me and your grandma as my little great-grandson?"
The old lady said to the side: "Yes, our old couple thought Xiaojin would be broken, we wondered why Xiaoli would take him to some France and refused to come back for so long. Your grandfather found Xiaoli's Dad came to ask him and he knew that there was such a quarrel between you. Also, you were stabbed by the foreigner's husband of Zhao Ting. How are you recovering?"
Fu Hua lowered his head and said, "My body is almost recovered. It's all my grandmother."
The old lady said: "You really didn't do this thing well. If you do something more defensive, you won't be calculated so cruelly."
Mr. Zheng said: "Okay, don't talk about him. Where did his head go without looking at him? Fu Hua, I asked you to see me, not for your review, but for you. Said to think of a way to make Xiaoli and Fu Jin come back quickly."
Fu Hua said: "Grandpa, I want them to come back too, but Xiaoli refuses to listen to me at all, and she refuses to answer the phone. I really can't help it."
Zheng Lao said, "Fu Hua, this is where you have most failed in handling this matter. How can you make things come to this point?"
Fu Hua glanced at Old Zheng and said, "Grandpa, what do you mean?"
Zheng Lao said: "As far as I know about you and Xiaoli, you both love each other deeply. Since this is the case, this matter should have been resolved easily. You are in this matter, It is true that you did something wrong, but who is right? What's more, you are an unintentional mistake calculated by others. If you can handle it well, you won't make this matter as passive as it is now. "
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said: "No, grandpa, I want to handle this matter properly. I have been apologizing to Xiaoli, but she has always refused to forgive me."
Old Zheng shook his head and said, "You were wrong at the beginning. You shouldn't give the initiative to deal with this matter in Xiaoli's hands from the beginning. As a woman, no matter who hears of her Her husband will be so angry that she loses her mind if something like this happens. Xiaoli's strong personality is even more so. In this state, how can you expect her to forgive you?"
Fu Hua said: "Then what should I do?"
Zheng Lao said: "You shouldn't put yourself in a weak position where everything is wrong at the beginning. You should be strong. If I were to state this matter, I would definitely say this to you. It was designed by others, and it is not your fault. I hope Xiaoli can tide over this difficulty with you. I think if you can say that, the situation of the whole thing may be completely different now."
Fu Hua was stunned. After all, Mr. Zheng was a battle-tested political veteran with rich experience in handling contradictions. In his words, the description of things is another way. According to the situation Fu Hua originally described to Zheng Li, he did something wrong himself, and I hope Zheng Li can forgive him. And if Fu Hua tells Zheng Li according to the situation described by Zheng Lao, it turns out that he has been framed. I hope Zheng Li can realize this, so that he and his wife can tide over this difficulty together.
Although there is no chance to turn back the time, it doesn't work to try Zheng Lao's statement, but Fu Hua himself feels that Zheng Lao's statement is better. Zheng Lao's statement turned this matter into a problem that husband and wife need to face together. Zheng Li may realize the feeling that the husband and wife share difficulties, and thus may temporarily forget the ambiguity between Fu Hua and other women.
When something happens, the immediate impact is the strongest. If Zheng Li can forget it temporarily and think about it later, I'm afraid it won't feel so strong.
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said, "Grandpa, you still have wisdom. Why didn't I think of this at the time?"
Zheng Lao said: "This is also what I have summed up from decades of political experience. Fu Hua, in the future, whether you are at work or in life, you must pay attention to one thing. You can lose everything, but you can't lose your momentum. With the momentum, you still have a chance to win; when the momentum is gone, you have already lost. Do you know how to play Go?"
Fu Hua said: "Somehow a little bit."
Zheng Lao said: "Then you may have heard of a famous story about Shi on Go, it's that of Li Shimin and Qiu Weiqi."
Fu Hua nodded and said, "I've heard of it."
Zheng Lao tells a story about Go that has been widely circulated. He said that in the end of the Sui Dynasty and the beginning of the Tang Dynasty, the world had just been settled, and a generation of swordsmen and beards wanted to compete with the Tang Dynasty to win the world. He heard that Li Shimin, the pillar of the Tang Dynasty, was an extraordinary hero, so he decided to meet Li Shimin himself. If it is true that the rumors are true, Li Shimin is really powerful. He considers the people of the world, so he will withdraw from this competition and give up the world to Li Shimin; if Li Shimin just gains a false name, it will not be too late to compete with him.
Li Shimin usually likes to play Go. On this day, he was in the study and didn’t know which national player to play. The slapstick came and asked to talk with Li Shimin. Li Shimin has been on the battlefield for many years, and he has seen people in the world, right now. Chaos is not surprised, and readily agrees.
Unexpectedly, even though the stunner was a guest, he was not polite at all. He grabbed the four chess pieces and placed them on the four star positions respectively, and said meaningfully to Li Shimin: "My stunner must dominate the Quartet in the future!"
As soon as Li Shimin heard the words of the bearded man, he immediately understood that this man was not here to play chess, but was directed at Datang Jiangshan. In terms of momentum, he could not lose to him. He groaned for a moment, smiled slightly at the bearded guy, picked up a chess piece and placed it on the Tianyuan position, and said to the bearded guy: "Then I, Li Shimin, will win the first prize in the world!"
The guilty bearded guest was shocked, ashamed that he was not as bold as Li Shimin, and since then he led his troops back to Dongying, and no longer had the idea of contending for the world.
Zheng Lao said: "Now that you know this story, you should know that Li Shimin won, not because his chess skills are better than the guillotiner, but that his aura surpasses the guillotine. Most successful people tend to be deep in their hearts. They have a very strong self-confidence. Because they have this kind of mind and tolerance, they have a strong desire for success. That's why Chen Sheng said that the bird is safe and wise; Xiang Yu said when he saw Qin Shihuang on the tour. I can replace it; Cao Cao will only make a heroic voice when the green plum is cooking wine, the heroes of the world, the heroic voice of the king and the ears. First of all, they won with a kind of momentum. And Fu Hua, you, what do I feel about you now It's all good, but it lacks this kind of aura of giving up to others."
Said Mr. Zheng glanced at Fu Hua, and then continued: "Fu Hua, when we first met, I felt that you have that fearless aura. For me, an old man, you can still use one. Communicate with me with an equal mentality. But after you got married with Xiaoli, the aura in you is getting less and less, and you seem to be afraid of Xiaoli, you are afraid of her. Is it our Zheng family background? Did you put too much pressure on you? The last time your municipal party committee secretary wanted to see me, wasn't it because Xiaoli was unwilling, didn't you even dare to tell me?"
Fu Hua smiled bitterly, and said: "Grandpa, you are really like a torch. It may be because of your position in the political arena. On the one hand, I have benefited a lot. On the other hand, it may indeed be because of you. Our marriage relationship is getting stronger and stronger."