Seeing the young man lowering his attitude like this, Su Tang sighed deeply and said to him, "face the people you are close to in a clean manner, instead of unscrupulously hurting them just because you are close."
Young people have to grow up eventually. One mistake everyone seems to make is to practice politeness, respect and politeness towards outsiders and strangers, but leave their temper to their close family members or friends.
But what Su Tang wants to say is that this is wrong. Don't think that you can hurt them or throw your emotions at them just because they are relatives, family members, and people who have feelings and will be infinitely accommodating.
On the contrary, we should cherish such feelings. Su Tang and Pei Xuan are relatively familiar and intimate people, and they are willing to accommodate the willfulness and awkwardness of an immature teenager. It does not mean that she will not be hurt, and it does not mean that she can. Always forgive without a bottom line.
In this world, even biological parents may not be able to accommodate without regrets throughout their lives, let alone others.
Su Tang had to make her attitude clear. She was friends with Pei Xuan, but compared to Luo Xingchen, Pei Xuan was indeed ranked behind. There was no doubt about it.
At the same time, Su Tang also needs to tell Pei Xuan where his bottom line is. If he still wants to be a good friend and get along well, Pei Xuan cannot continue to be like this.
"I am not your servant, but a living person just like you.
I have my own attitude towards life, my own values, and my own way of life. How I live, how I make friends, and how I get along with others are the rights I have as an independent person.
You don’t have to understand, and I don’t ask you to understand, but I hope that at least I have a minimum of respect for you.
And any choice I make, what kind of people I become friends with, do business with, how close I am, everything, and all the consequences caused by it, since I have made it, I will bear it myself, and I don’t need others. Beak. "
Su Tang moved her hands and broke away from his pull on her, which also showed her attitude. In Su Tang's view, Pei Xuan was not qualified to evaluate her life and her friends.
The young man had awkwardly told her not to play with Luo Xingchen before. She could take it as a joke and just laugh it off.
But now that Luo Xingchen has come to Beijing, Pei Xuan can talk about how she and Luo Xingchen are like this, and even thinks that she is not clear with the man by doing this.
This is no longer a joke. He should be glad that Orange Cat said that Pei Xuan didn't really think so, otherwise Su Tang would never have anything to do with Pei Xuan in his life.
Dao did not agree with each other, and Su Tang did not think there was any value in letting her continue to associate with someone who missed her just because of this.
After saying this, Su Tang pursed his lips and said, "I am not qualified to punish you. Just like I will bear everything for my decision, you will eventually bear everything for your mistakes."
Similarly, Su Tang also felt that he was not qualified to punish Pei Xuan. What was their relationship? If it didn't reach that level, don't do anything beyond that.
"It's just this time, it won't be the same next time, Pei Xuan, I'm just saying this time, I respect that you can't understand my thoughts and values, or even my behavior and personality, but I also hope you can respect me.
We are two different people. From now on, even if you have a high position and high authority, I will still be just an ordinary person. Even in the eyes of many people, I am completely different from you. But no matter what my life is like, it is still valuable. Yes, worthy of everyone's respect. "
(End of chapter)