During the Chinese New Year, my mother took my younger brother with me. Relatives and friends gathered around to see my younger brother. The client sat aside in despair.
They all praised their brother for being cute, and their mother laughed and agreed.
A relative asked my mother, how are your daughter's grades? My mother said with a bad expression that her grades have declined now.
Relatives exaggeratedly said, "Oh, it's just a little more difficult to learn in the third grade of junior high school, and it's normal to not be able to keep up."
That is to say, the client is stupid. The client was so angry that he stood up and said:
"I'm not stupid, it's because my parents quarreled every day, and my brother quarreled so much every day. I couldn't sleep because of the quarrel, and I had no energy during the day."
Oh, the relative looked at my mother meaningfully.
The mother was very angry that the client said such things. The family scandal should not be publicized. The child just said it and let others laugh.
Go back and scold the client.
The client does not understand why he is wrong to defend himself.
She was quarreling with her mother, and the two of them were quarreling fiercely.
The first time there was a quarrel, there would be a second time. Every time the client quarreled, he would go to the small park to stay.
When it got dark, the client returned home and saw his grandparents, father, and mother holding their younger brother while they were eating.
It seems that they are in harmony.
The client felt even more disappointed.
Feeling completely ignored.
In such an environment and in a bad mentality, the client's performance dropped again and again.
The parents were very anxious when they saw the results. They explained the principles to the client one by one, but it didn't work and the results remained the same.
The child is not sensible at all and does not know the importance of reading.
The scolding started again, but in the end it had no effect, and it turned into physical violence.
When the client is answering questions, he pulls the client's ears or something, making the client's ears turn red.
Always find a way to put pressure on your child and make her feel a sense of urgency.
What do children know? If you don’t force them, they won’t become talented. They are not stupid and their grades have been good in the past. If you force them, it will always be effective.
The client's parents have this mentality. No matter what method they use, they must force their children to get into a good high school.
Children may not understand it now, but they will understand their good intentions when they grow up.
Repeat reading
The parents of the client do not want their children to fail the high school entrance examination and then repeat the studies. The secret intention is that repeating the studies will make their children stupid.
My children have been good at studying among relatives and friends since they were young. They used to tell others this every day. If the children repeat the class, they must not make it a joke to others.
But if the client can't bear it, he will resist. In short, the house is very lively.
Every time I see the disappointed eyes of my parents, it feels like pricking me with needles.
Before the high school entrance examination, there are various exams, big and small. Knowing that the exam is coming the next day, the client is so anxious that he can't sleep.
Because she knew that if she didn't do well in the exam, she would have to face her parents' roars, and even pull her ears and soft flesh on her body.
When it comes to the exam, every time the client gets the paper, he will be very nervous when he starts writing. He is afraid that if he gets the question wrong, he will be scolded and violent after returning home.
Many times clients are afraid to go home.
The client was living a very depressed life. At this time, there happened to be a male classmate in the class who slowly approached the client.
When I was young, the emotional impulse came very quickly, and even the person involved didn't know why the call came.
In short, the client fell in love with this boy prematurely.
Because this boy can make the client smile.
In fact, falling in love at this stage was very young and pure. They didn't even hold hands, they just talked together.
But can children hide their tricks from adults
The client's family soon discovered the client's puppy love.
Then he attributed the client's academic decline to puppy love. The client's father was even more angry. He slapped the client several times and forced the client to write a guarantee saying that he would no longer fall in love with puppies and study hard. some type of.
The client had written it down, but the words her parents scolded her at that time were like a thorn in her heart that she couldn't pull out.
Moreover, the client's parents later worried that the client was still in a relationship, leaving the client with no personal space at all.
Her room was inspected and even her diary was read.
The client felt as if he had been stripped naked, very ashamed, with nothing to cover him.
It gives me heartburn every time I think about it.
In the end, the client failed to pass anything in the high school entrance examination.
In fact, if the client works hard, he can be admitted to an ordinary high school. However, the moment the client writes about the high school entrance examination, he suddenly has a revengeful and rebellious mentality in his heart.
Didn't do the questions well.
This shocked the whole family of the client, because the previous results of the client were said to be stress-free in key high schools.
What does key high school mean? It means good resources and half a foot in the university.
It also means the face of their family.
Even though his grades declined later, there is nothing wrong with being in an ordinary high school, right
But nothing passed the exam.
The client's family said in front of the client, you wouldn't be like this if you didn't fall in love.
How can you fall in love at such a young age
Falling in love is such a waste of time.
The parents lost face. Some of the relatives had children who were admitted to high school at the same time as the client. Other parents called the client's mother to tell the good news.
Alas, my son was admitted to No. 1 Middle School.
Oops, my son was admitted to No. 3 Middle School, yes, that city’s key high school. The classes are very special, and they are the class that gets a lot of scholarships every year.
By the way, what school did your daughter go to
Isn’t it very easy for your daughter to get into a key high school
The client’s mother said weakly that she failed to pass the exam.
The person on the other end of the phone pretended to comfort him, and then showed off his child.
The client's mother glared at the client and decided on the spot to send the client to a cram school. Stop playing during the summer vacation and study hard.
Then reread and retake the exam.
The client is insensitive.
Ask your mother if grades are really that important
Am I your bragging rights
My mother didn’t answer whether it was for bragging rights, but she told the client that reading was of course important.
If you didn't fall in love and put so much thought into it, it wouldn't be like this at all.
Can you please save some energy and worry? Mom has to go to work and take care of the children.
Every time the client hears the words "love", it feels like she has been stripped naked. Why, why do you want to humiliate her over and over again
It's obviously over.
Seeing her parents mention the word "love", disgust flashed in her eyes, as if she had done something particularly shameful.
The client felt extremely humiliated. She failed in the high school entrance examination. Other parents comforted their children, but her own parents poured salt on her wounds over and over again.
The client completely lost interest in reading.
But I had no choice but to listen to my parents and repeat the course for another year.