I thought about marrying a wife, and then the children would raise their own money, and let the son and daughter-in-law buy a house together. After all, isn't it popular now that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not live together
To avoid too many conflicts, the client was actually quite happy for the first fifty years. Although he was not rich, his husband was considerate, his son was obedient, and he lived a comfortable life.
My husband is good, so the focus of my life is not entirely on my son. I can accept living apart from each other, and my mind is considered open-minded.
But everything changed because of this daughter-in-law.
In fact, it was not 300,000 yuan. When the two families sat together, they said that the 300,000 yuan as a gift was just a formality to support the scene. After that, they would bring back 200,000 yuan, and the remaining 100,000 yuan was regarded as the real gift money.
The woman doesn’t need a dowry or anything. What she said is that after the wedding, she goes to see the house.
200,000 is considered as the down payment of the couple, and taking it out so early is considered as earnest money. After all, the woman's family is worried that the couple will not be able to provide this money after they get married.
To dispel their concerns, the woman's family will not let go at all, and they must do this.
The old couple is easy to talk to, and as long as the children live a good life, that's fine.
Their city is not a big city, so 200,000 yuan plus the son's tens of thousands more to buy a three-bedroom apartment in a similar location with a down payment of 100 square meters is definitely enough.
My son has also been working for several years. He usually eats and drinks at home without spending a penny, and he always has some savings.
It’s not like I treated my daughter-in-law badly.
Before she came here, she had already made it clear to her about the conditions at home. They didn't have luxury houses, and she didn't have any objections.
They are not far behind ordinary people in terms of their conditions. What ordinary people have, their daughters-in-law also have.
But after the wedding was completed, the client asked his son why you didn't look at the house yet, and his son said he didn't bring back the money.
Delegator:?
The in-laws are ambiguous
I feel very uncomfortable. Wasn't it agreed upon at that time
Originally, the bride price here was not so heavy, and according to the customs here, the girl's family would give a small dowry.
One hundred thousand without any dowry is quite interesting.
And what about the two hundred thousand that we agreed to bring back now
I didn’t bring anything back, and it wasn’t just a small amount of money, so I felt a pang in my heart.
I couldn't help but ask my son, where did the money go
My son said that his brother-in-law used it to open a shop and spent it on decoration.
Tang Shaoyuan saw that his mother's expression was not very good, so he comforted the client and said that it was just a temporary misappropriation, and when his brother-in-law made money, he would return it to them.
He and his wife are not in a hurry to buy a house for the time being and can just live at home.
The client said in his heart that you two are eating and drinking at home every day, and you have to eat here and there without giving you a penny for living expenses. Your father's little salary has been spent without a penny left.
But after all, he was his own son, so saying this seemed so stingy. The client didn't say it, but he felt unhappy.
The money he had saved for half his life was wasted on his daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's brother. The client's heart was throbbing with pain, and he thought that his son and daughter-in-law had just gotten married, so he did not dare to have an attack.
Isn't it unpleasant for me to make such a fuss
Affect children's emotions.
I endured it.
But in fact, the client is not very optimistic about his daughter-in-law's brother. He feels that nothing can be accomplished and everything is only a matter of three minutes.
I feel in my heart that it is very difficult to get the money back. Although it is not a big city, housing prices will also rise. If it takes a few years, a down payment of 20,000 to 30,000 yuan may not be enough.
Saving money in a bank is more reliable than this.
After getting married, my daughter-in-law said she wanted to prepare for pregnancy at home. She just wanted to prepare for pregnancy. The client took care of her all day long. She did nothing to prepare for pregnancy and ate all kinds of fruits as if she was pregnant.
Eat whatever fruit is more expensive.
I thought the client's cooking was not good, so I called for food at the restaurant downstairs and asked the client to pay for it when I arrived.
Don't take economic issues into account at all.
The client's money was all earned by the old man working in the factory. One person earns money for four people to spend, and he also wants to save some money for emergencies. To be honest, the client feels a little heartbroken when his daughter-in-law spends money like this.
He implicitly asked his son for money, but his son said that all the money was with his wife.
My wife refused to give it, saying that they had to save their money for the down payment later.
Tang Shaoyuan thought about it and gave it a try. He also felt that it was not good to ask his parents to spend money.
But his salary card is with his wife.
As a result, he was scolded, kicked and pinched by his wife. Tang Shaoyuan ran to the living room in despair with a grimace on his face.
What else can the client say? You can't rob it.
Besides, now that my daughter-in-law is preparing for pregnancy, she can eat some expensive fruits or some expensive takeaways, so as not to say that she treats her harshly, the client will still buy whatever she wants.
After several months of preparing for pregnancy, my daughter-in-law’s belly showed no signs of movement. However, her daughter-in-law did. She said she would need childbirth funds to have a baby.
Looking at the situation at home, I don’t want much, just a hundred thousand.
That tone was quite understanding of the client's parents-in-law. If you don't make money, I won't ask for much, just one hundred thousand. As long as one hundred thousand is the result of my reasonableness.
The client couple felt like they were being driven crazy, one hundred thousand
Where to get it
They had spent three hundred thousand out of their pockets before, but now they still needed money to give birth to a child. They were worried and angry.
The client told his daughter-in-law that he had never heard of anyone asking their parents-in-law for their fertility fund after giving birth. You were being special.
If you, the young couple, can't afford it after the baby is born, we elders can help pay for it, but before the baby is born, you have to pay 100,000 yuan, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.
The client couldn't bear it anymore. The accumulation of previous things and this incident made the client very angry. It was the first time since his son and daughter-in-law got married that they showed off to their daughter-in-law.
Then the client becomes the evil mother-in-law.
The daughter-in-law made a fuss about returning to her parents' home, and everyone in the neighborhood knew about the fuss.
He said that he had no job and was bullied by his mother-in-law at home. The child was born for free, but her mother-in-law just asked for the birth but did not support it.
Only when you give money can you have the confidence to live. When the time comes, prenatal check-ups and confinement care are now popular. Confinement centers are comfortable and worry-free. These consumptions are very expensive.
Although the client also explained it outside, everyone just had the attitude of watching the excitement, and it didn't matter who was right or wrong.
But family scandals should not be made public. Now everyone knows about this mess.
The son's attitude is that he is torn between his wife and his mother.
Sometimes he coaxes this, and sometimes he coaxes that.
In fact, it is quite painful, but there is no way at all. I have finally married a daughter-in-law, and I like it very much. It would be best if both parties can be comforted.
The old man saw that the client couldn't sleep all night and was so angry that he felt a little distressed and said:
"You see it's making a lot of trouble. Just give it a hundred thousand. This is our only son. Sooner or later, we'll give it to them. Besides, we should also prepare money when our grandson is born."
The old man felt that one hundred thousand yuan was a gift to his grandson. If he didn't give him this money, he might not be willing to give birth to him.