Because Gu Pandi didn't use any strength at all.
She was just expressing her dissatisfaction in this way.
Xu Xiuwen continued, "Aunt Gu, I have actually thought about it carefully. I am the man who is most suitable for you."
Gu Pandi didn't want to refute and snorted contemptuously.
Xu Xiuwen chuckled, "Aunt Gu, if you don't agree, then I'll have a serious talk with you. If you find a man, he must be successful in his career first, so that he can take good care of you and Xiaoyu. Otherwise, if he has accomplished nothing, or doesn't even have a good job, how will your relatives and neighbors look at you? They will definitely think that you can't find a good one, and they may even laugh at you behind your back. You won't find such a man, am I right?"
Gu Pandi didn't say anything.
But she agreed with what he said in her heart.
Not that she was planning anything.
It’s just that the man is not good enough, so she doesn’t like him.
Xu Xiuwen continued: "In addition to being successful in his career, this man must also be handsome and strong."
Gu Pandi couldn't help but give Xu Xiuwen a cold look.
It sounded like he was describing himself.
She whispered, "I'm not a little girl anymore. It doesn't matter whether I'm handsome or not."
Xu Xiuwen laughed and said, "Then being strong must have some meaning, right?"
“It’s hard to say.”
"Auntie Gu, don't be so stubborn. There are three irrefutable benefits of having a strong body: first, it can help you with work; second, it will keep you healthy and you won't get sick often, so you don't need to spend energy to take care of it. If you get sick, it can still take care of you; and finally... it can bring you happiness."
Gu Pandi listened quietly.
She agreed with the first two benefits.
As for the third benefit.
Gu Pandi's heart beat faster.
She felt that Xu Xiuwen was hinting at something.
No, this is not a hint, it is an explicit statement.
Gu Pandi really wanted to say that kind of thing was not important.
But she really couldn't say it.
I used to think it was unimportant.
Ever since I experienced that feeling.
Still... quite important.
"That's not all. In addition to these conditions, there is one more important point."
Gu Pandi's curiosity was also aroused by his words.
Xu Xiuwen said: "That means this man must know you inside out. He must never betray you, deceive you, or hurt you, and he must sincerely accept Xiaoyu and treat her well. You don't want to find a stepfather who treats Xiaoyu badly, right?"
Gu Pandi was silent.
Having suffered a failed marriage, Gu Pandi obviously doesn't want to meet the wrong person again.
She couldn't stand being betrayed a second time.
There are also small fish.
Even if she does remarry, or find a man.
The other party's attitude towards Xiaoyu is also the focus of her observation.
A man who is only nice to her but doesn't care about or accept Xiaoyu.
She wouldn't even look at the other person.
Xu Xiuwen knew that his words had convinced Gu Pandi.
He couldn't help but smile complacently.
Then, he recommended himself, "In summary, I think I'm a good match for you. Let's talk about career first. I own a winery and a company, so I can be considered successful, right? I'm also handsome, and I'm strong... I'm not bragging, but judging from your reaction the last two times, I think I'm doing pretty well. You seem to be quite comfortable and satisfied with my performance."
Gu Pandi never expected Xu Xiuwen to bring this up suddenly.
His face suddenly turned red.
She said angrily, "What nonsense are you talking about? How do you know that seeing me makes your eyes feel comfortable and satisfied? You forced me to do it!"
Two previous experiences.
Although he was tough and proactive at the beginning.
But in the middle and even in the back.
Gu Pandi also enjoyed it very much.
To say it was all forced by him.
It seems a bit forced.
But Xu Xiuwen did not refute.
He knew that Gu Pandi was just embarrassed.
Maybe she agrees with what he said in her heart.
"Okay, okay... Just treat it as my nonsense. Let's not talk about this for now, let's continue. You should know me well, Aunt Gu. Other men may cheat you of your money and beauty, but I won't. I like you sincerely. And Xiaoyu and I grew up together. I have always treated her as my sister, and that will not change in the future. So Aunt Gu, you can rest assured in choosing me."
"Actually, there is one more thing, Aunt Gu, have you ever thought about it? You said you don't want to get married, but other men are too old and you don't like them. How can they not want to get married if they are the same age as you and single? Can they not force you to get married? If they are also divorced and have children, you still have to adapt to their children. Don't you think it's troublesome?"
"But I won't! I will never use our relationship to constrain or imprison you. You are still you. If you don't want to get married, I can accept that. I can give you freedom, and you don't have to sacrifice anything for me. You just need to be happy."
Xu Xiuwen's last words were pleasant to hear.
But translated, it actually means that I cannot marry you, I cannot take responsibility, but I can give you freedom.
Don't blame Xu Xiuwen for being shameless.
Xu Xiuwen just doesn't want to be a hypocritical man.
No matter whether he marries Cheng Lu, Xiao Youran, Tang Weiwei, or even Shen Minyao, it is highly unlikely that he will marry Gu Pandi.
He just wants to.
But if he dared to mention it in front of Ning Wanqiu, he would probably have his legs broken.
Moreover, neighbors and relatives would probably look at him strangely.
Xu Xiuwen didn't mind.
But it is impossible for Gu Pandi not to care about other people's opinions.
After hearing this, Gu Pandi was indeed moved at first.
But she is not an eighteen-year-old girl anymore.
I soon realized that Xu Xiuwen actually didn't want to take responsibility.
What gives her freedom.
They are all just euphemisms.
But she wasn't angry.
Because she really had never thought about finding another man to marry.
But not getting married.
What decent man could stay in a relationship with her forever
Unless they are bad men who play with feelings, pursue sex and money.
Think about it this way.
Xu Xiuwen is indeed the most suitable candidate.
In fact, Gu Pandi didn’t dislike Xu Xiuwen.
In fact, she had already secretly accepted Xu Xiuwen in her heart.
Otherwise, do you really think she has no temper
If it were a man she didn't like, he would dare to talk nonsense in front of her and often take advantage of her.
She had already called the police.
Not to mention the previous two experiences.
Xu Xiuwen treated her so badly.
Although she said she was unwilling.
But he has always cooperated with him.
She's never been like that before.
Gu Pandi's only concern so far is that once the relationship is exposed, what will Ning Wanqiu, Zhang Ruoshu, her daughter and Xiao Youran think of her when they find out
This has become a hurdle that is difficult for her to overcome.