Girls pay more attention to sincerity. If a boy can devote all his body, mind and trust to pursue a girl, the girl will often be moved.
But not the other way around.
Even if a girl devotes all her infatuation to chasing a boy, the boy may be temporarily moved, but this temporary touch cannot last at all.
Especially when the boy has other women in mind, it is even more difficult.
Between Zuo ning and Kong Muqing, it seemed that Kong Muqing took the initiative, and it seemed that Zuo ning had always been forced, but in fact, Zuo ning loved Kong Muqing.
Zuo Ning's love is forbearing, it is a turbulent undercurrent hidden under the calm sea.
When the truth of Kong Yuanjie's case was revealed, when Kong Muqing went to confront Zuo Ning, on the rooftop, Zuo Ning held Kong Muqing's hand and sent the knife into his heart...
Yun Hua knew that Zuo ning really didn't want to live at that time.
Even if he really survived, his heart would die.
As for Fan Zitong, he has liked Zuo Ning for so long that he has lost himself.
She knew that Zuo ning didn't love her, but she still didn't want to give up, and even offered to date Zuo ning, she didn't need Zuo ning to love her...
In order to make Kong Muqing give up, Zuo Ning agreed to Fan Zitong.
The two were lovers, but in Yun Hua's opinion, they were probably worse than friends.
Fan Zitong's love is also very humble. At first, she might really think that even if Zuo Ning doesn't love her, as long as Zuo Ning is her boyfriend, that's fine.
However, Fan Zitong forgot that all people are greedy, and all people have to look forward to Shu.
At first, I thought it was enough to just a little bit, but gradually, I wanted more...
"Coach Fan, what do you want me to do?" Yun Hua asked.
Fan Mengying sighed and shook her head: "Forget it, I don't know what to do, Zitong is too easy to get into a corner. She doesn't care about anything, including swimming. The only thing she cares about is Zuo Ning, But feelings can't be forced..."
"At your age, you don't really like listening to your parents' nagging." Fan Mengying smiled wryly, "Parents want their children to avoid detours, but life experiences and lessons are often learned only by experiencing it yourself. What do others say? … none of it worked."
Yun Hua nodded. She understood Fan Mengying's thoughts very well.
Children don't like the preaching of their parents, and think that it is unnecessary for parents to add their experience and ideas to themselves, and there is a generation gap.
In fact, it is because the transmission of experience and lessons cannot be through language, only personal experience can be profound enough.
It's normal, isn't it
The experience and lessons of the parents are also summed up from the experience of suffering. Before suffering, no one can truly experience that feeling.
"I was just like her back then, no one would listen to anyone's persuasion, I only knew to pursue what I wanted, and I said I would not regret it." Fan Mengying said in a low voice, "Now... I am still telling myself, Don't regret it, because regretting... is useless."
Thinking that Coach Fan was alone, Yun Hua probably understood, and he was also embarrassed.
"Zi Tong is more paranoid than people back then, I'm just afraid that she will do something irreversible." Fan Mengying sighed, "I wanted you to persuade Zuo Ning to break up with Zi Tong. Short-term pain, it would be a good thing to treat Zi Tong simply. But, I am sorry for Zuo Ning, I can't persuade Zi Tong, so I transferred the pressure to Zuo Ning, which is not right. Forget it, let nature take its course."
(end of this chapter)