Chapter 1430 I Already Have Someone I Like
Zhou Shengbeiqian answered very simply.
The voice is very serious, and the eyes are also very serious.
Yun Hua actually said that, but Zhou Shengbeiqian's serious answer made her a little... at a loss.
"Ah... Maybe it's because you were young before? Don't know how to take care of people?" Yun Hua blinked.
Zhou Sheng Beiqian said flatly, "No, it's because I never had a girlfriend before."
"..." Yun Hua twitched the corner of his mouth, "Oh."
Zhou Shengbeiqian is a few years older than Bao Siqing. At this age, he doesn't have a girlfriend yet... No, it's not that he doesn't have a girlfriend at this age, but he doesn't have a girlfriend at this age...
Why does it get weirder the more I say it!
"Hey, you used to be too focused on your studies. Just like Bao Siqing, you skipped a grade, and with a high IQ, you are not surrounded by people of the same age, nor are you at the same level of IQ. Sometimes, you may miss some ordinary things. People's emotional life..." Yun Hua didn't even know what he was talking about, it was so embarrassing!
Zhou Shengbeiqian nodded indifferently: "Well, I used to think that those girls are not creatures on the same planet as me at all."
"...The more you say it, the more exaggerated it is." Yun Hua was drunk, "Then how do you get in touch with people?"
"Learn." Zhou Sheng Beiqian said very simply, "It's not difficult to learn how to interact with people."
Yun Hua was drunk.
Learning to connect with people, isn't it difficult
For a social madman, there is no need to learn to get in touch with people, it is simply an innate skill, and it is not even comfortable not to get in touch with people!
But for some people who are afraid of trouble, for people with social disabilities, contacting people is simply... fatal!
This is especially true for people with high IQs, because they can easily understand many things that are difficult for ordinary people to understand, so the topics of ordinary people are not attractive to them, so the communication between ordinary people usually Get them bored and they'd rather be in touch with work!
However, Bao Siqing also said before that a high IQ does not mean a low EQ.
The reason why many people think that people with high IQ must have low EQ is that many of them are intentional.
Because people with high IQ are smart enough to know that low EQ can be forgiven when they work extremely well, plus they are already tired of socializing, and they are tired of doing those so-called high EQs that are actually troublesome communication...
In this case, people with high IQ will clearly know where their advantages are, know that they have the right to be proud and self-willed, and people will forgive them because of their IQ!
How good it is, you don't have to deal with those troublesome communication at all.
Therefore, many people with high IQ seem to have low EQ.
In fact, a high IQ represents a strong learning ability, and those actions that can show high EQ are difficult to learn
Is it really difficult to ignore the likes and dislikes in your heart and simply learn some behaviors and words that can show high EQ
not at all!
When meeting leaders and acquaintances, just say hello, just search for a few words of greeting, and use them repeatedly, because the other party doesn’t care whether you really care about something or not
When getting out of the car, open the car door for the lady. When chatting with people, follow the words of others, even if it is a lie, as long as it sounds good, such as "Auntie, you look so young", such as a certain brat "Your child is so lively"...
Guaranteed to be crowned with the title of high emotional intelligence in an instant!
good night~
(end of this chapter)