The older aunt talked more and more, the cousin had already stood aggrieved in the corner. It is estimated that the older aunt would have to wipe her tears in front of everyone. The more Shen Dapeng understood at this time, why the cousin became like this. The uncle was as taciturn.
I thought it was the stability of growing up. It turned out that the pressure from the family and the failure of the college entrance examination caused her to lose confidence, especially what the aunt said just now, which really hurts her self-esteem.
In contrast, what the elder uncle said is more reasonable. For some things, there will be rewards if you work hard, and it is not like those'inspiring brothers' said that perseverance will always lead to success.
On the growth path of life, more often than not, I have worked hard and struggled but I still can’t see the road ahead. I taste the failures that are not failures and the successes that are not successful on the road of life, mediocre and ordinary life.
But... Who can make it clear that an ordinary life is mediocre? Or simple happiness
"Okay, for the New Year, don't talk about it!"
The elder uncle gave a rare sip, and everyone in the room was taken aback. The people who used to use'um' to express their speeches seemed to be really angry when they even yelled at others.
"What are you calling to me? What are you calling? I am also thinking about the future of my girl? Dapeng is studying in the capital, but that is the famous Mizuki University in the country. The teachers, classmates, and friends I know are definitely capable people. If Xinxin University works hard to get a bachelor degree in three years, maybe I can go to Beijing to get a postgraduate entrance examination..."
Aunt’s strong temper broke out, and she didn’t care about the presence of her family, let alone the New Year. In fact, it’s not her fault. The elder aunt has always been honest and needs her to worry about things both at home and abroad. It’s not a big deal to be strong. problem.
In particular, children are the expectations of their parents in the future. The cousin’s college entrance examination is not ideal, and the aunt’s disappointment is reasonable. Moreover, the aunt is also reasonable. It is indeed a way out, but Shen Dapeng himself has never thought about it. , One day he actually became the "child of someone else's family" in the parents' mouth!
"Auntie, stop arguing! Since my cousin has worked very hard, she won't feel ashamed of her youth!"
Shen Dapeng didn't want to reason with his elders. The elders have their own life experiences, and naturally they don’t look at the world and things the same. He didn’t want to reason with his aunt or with a woman. It was simply... Haha!
There are tens of thousands of paths in life. The university entrance examination is only one of them. It is relatively the easiest. There is nothing wrong with choosing any one. My aunt used to be a female worker in a cannery, but now she is not the same as a successful entrepreneur.
"Look at how well someone Dapeng said, you can't be ashamed of your youth! Xinxin, mom hopes you can also say such bold words. Three years are enough for you to take the undergraduate entrance examination.
You chose computer science again. I have asked my old classmates for you. People say that finding a job in the computer industry is particularly easy. When the time comes, you will work with a bachelor degree and you will be admitted to graduate school while working. As long as you are willing to work hard, at least one month Start with five thousand wages! "
Parents’ expectations are always good, and planning is always the best, but it’s just their ideas, but they have never considered what kind of pressure their children will endure.
Aunt's tens of seconds and a few words are enough to arrange the child's five-year time. But in five years, more than 1,800 days and nights, how can the child work hard? How to fight? How can you not let your family down
"Auntie, don't talk about Sister Xinxin. She is crying. You adults are so strict in studying. I don't want to go to school anymore. I'm still free on vacation. Sister Xinxin and Brother Dapeng accompany me to play and eat. Endless snacks."
Although Li Ting was young, there were ghosts and spirits in her eyes. A few words made Auntie feel helpless and dumbfounded, and the atmosphere in the room eased.
"Chunfang, the children have their way to go, we can't accompany you forever."
Grandma should have heard the quarrel in the house. I don't know when she entered the house from the kitchen. "I think Xinxin is a good family. What if we don't study well? As long as we are willing to endure hardships when we are young, the future will definitely not be bad."
"I'm not worried for her yet, how stressful life is now, like my work with Liqing, I earn 700 or 800 yuan a month dead wages, I can't buy her a house in the county, and I haven't saved much money for her. Dowry, if she doesn’t study and work hard, she won’t be bullied when she arrives at her husband’s house?"
"Go, my family is still young, so I don't worry about getting married!"
Grandma petted her granddaughter's ponytail, her eyes were kind and gentle, "Furthermore, Xinxin needs a head and a head, she needs to look good, whoever married Xinxin, she wouldn't be a treasure!"
"Grandma!!!" Wang Shenxin shyly shook her ponytail, her face flushed and she lowered her head.
"Yo? I'm embarrassed! Grandma said, grandma is not willing to let you marry! But your mother is right, you have to work hard in the future, have a stable job and income, so that others will not look down upon others. , Our family has no background and can't help you much, so you have to do it yourself, understand?"
I don't know what grandma said to Wang Shenxin, but also to Shen Dapeng and Li Ting. Shen Dapeng and Wang Shenxin can understand and understand. As for Li Ting, she is still gnawing on shrimp chips and dried fruits as if there is nothing wrong.
"Mom! It's my fault. During the happy New Year, it's not expensive to talk about these unpleasant nonsense! Let's go to the kitchen to cook some dumplings. I haven't eaten at noon. Let me cook something and try it!"
The aunt deserves to be a standard female character. She changes her face when she says she changes her face. Just now she was in a posture that she didn’t give up without educating her daughter to become a Ph.D. She changed her smile in an instant, “The dumpling stuffing is amazing today. It was pure wild boar that I asked a friend to buy in the market a year ago. I even gave me five catties in total, and I don’t know if it’s enough.
"Dapeng, there are firecrackers in the barn, so I went to find the Lian500-sounding firecrackers to set them off. It is auspicious for the lively New Year's Eve, and there are two kicks. Do you dare to put them off
Although Shen Dapeng is 1.8 meters tall and has gone to college, in the eyes of his uncle who has not been in contact for many years, like Wang Shenxin, he is still a child who has not been baptized by society. When a child grows up and succeeds, he will subconsciously want to protect it.
"Don't dare? I'm afraid I'll let it go by accident."
"Brother Dapeng, wait for me, I will go too."
Shen Dapeng walked out, and Li Ting followed up, covering her mouth and whispering in a low voice: "My mom bought such beautiful fireworks. Don't let them go. Save me some."
"Well, when it gets dark at night, let's put it together!" Shen Dapeng smiled faintly.