Chapter 422: Advising the little sisters to study (1/3)
"There is nothing to think about, but the matchmaker came to introduce him, and agreed upon meeting when he found it appropriate."
"You never thought about it. When you get married in the future, you will no longer be children, but will become adults. You will live with a young man who has only met a few times, and have children for the rest of your life?"
Mei Xiaoran's words caused several cousins to laugh: "How old are you and talk like a little adult, aren't you about our age?"
"But I'm different from you, I still have to go to school."
"My father said that I had no success in school. Besides, I was not good at studying. I just don't want to go to school. Once I get married, I won't have to go to school anymore."
This little cousin, Miao, was also shocked, and she was stunned at the moment Mei Xiaoran.
"You just want to get married without going to school?"
"Otherwise? I'm not good at studying here, and I can't go into it. Even if I go to school, I won't be admitted to university like you. After three years of high school, isn't it the same as going home to farm?"
"But how old are you? Aren't you in junior high school now?"
"I went to school late, and the beginning of school should be in the third year. My father also said that he didn't study well at school, and he had to spend so much tuition... I don't want to go to school myself."
Mei Xiaoran was heartbroken, "Sister, what you think is too simple now. I advise you not to stop going to school because of a momentary frustration and feel that it is useless to go to school. Do you think about farming all your life, even if you are married, marry this? Are men still farming? Sister, I’m not preaching. I’m serious. In the first two years, I had a neighbor girl who thought the same as you. Guess what happened to her later?"
"What happened to her?"
Chunmiao blinked and asked, with a look of innocence!
Mei Xiaoran had to tell her: "My neighbor, she didn't study well at the beginning, and she didn't think about going to school well, so she thought it was better to quit school and go home to farm."
"Your neighbor is right, girls, just find a good wife. It's useless to read so many books."
Although the patriarchy here is not as good as the coastal areas, it is not non-existent, especially in the rural areas.
When Mei Xiaoran heard Mei Chunmiao say this, she really wanted to bounce her brain on her forehead. Isn't she filled with water
"You are wrong, my
A neighbor was about the same age as you in the first two years. She felt that she didn’t want to marry so early, so she worked hard to study... She and I happened to be at the same table, so we encouraged each other to learn from each other. For the exam, I was admitted to the first high school. She was admitted to Nanping Normal University. She will graduate this year. It is estimated that she will be assigned a job and begin teaching soon. "
Mei Xiaoran's words successfully silenced these girls.
After a few seconds, Mei Chunmiao smiled: "That's just a case, it's not that anyone who wants to be admitted to the teacher's college can be admitted. I can't study the appointment."
"Then why don't you know if you don't try it?"
Mei Xiaoran smiled: "Even if you really don't go to school, it won't hurt to read a few more years, and you can still go to Diandian University and Yeda University in the future."
Chunmiao's eyes were staring, and he asked in confusion, "What is TV university? What is Yeda?"
"It is an adult university that is open to the country. You can choose to study on weekends, radio, by correspondence, distance, self-study, and take the national college entrance examination uniformly. After being admitted to the university, it is also a nationally recognized academic qualification... The diplomas of these universities will be studied later. It is used in the same way as at work and in a regular university."
If it hadn't been for Mei Xiaoran to say this, Chunmiao wouldn't know that there was such a university. Hearing Mei Xiaoran's words, she really had the feeling of discovering a new world.
"Sister, remember, knowledge can change everything."
With a ready-made example, Mei Xiaoran is already the most promising dad at Meijiazhuang, Mei Zhonghua, to talk about things, "Look at my dad, he is now doing a big business, and he is quite promising. Although his educational background is not high, his cultural knowledge is not worse than that of a high school student. If he didn't have these ink in his stomach, he would definitely not be able to do it now."
Chunmiao thought about it for a long time, and then she asked without understanding, "Sister Ran Ran, if you say this, I want to go to school, but I'm afraid I can't do it. With my current study, I will definitely not be able to pass the exam. I didn’t pass the teacher’s exam in the high school entrance examination."
"If you can’t pass the teacher’s exam, you can take the high school. Fortunately, if you can’t pass the high school exam, you can go to the high school exam in the village. Seeing that you are not putting your mind on studying now, you try to put all your mind on studying, you
Try to study hard for two months to see if there is any progress. If there is really no progress, then I will not advise you to go to school. "
"But... I have already booked a kiss, and I also said that I will marry in the fall. The divorce period is not long."
Mei Chunmiao was very embarrassed. Although the blueprint that Sister Ran Ran painted for her made her yearn for, she is now engaged, like a bird with its wings broken, it must not be able to fly.
"Try to communicate with your partner and ask him to wait for two years. If you are admitted to school, I don't believe his parents won't let you continue to study... Besides, if you really become a top student, your vision It's open, and it won't be as superficial as the current thinking."
Mei Xiaoran really thinks that a girl at such a young age should go to school, so why do you marry so early? The young and light have to do housework and coax the baby. It takes a normal age to be forced to become an adult. It makes people feel distressed to think about it.
Mei Chunmiao thought for a while and said, "Well, I will discuss with my parents and my partner later."
Mei Chunmiao said that she was about the same age as her, and Mei Chunluo, who had already talked about marriage, also began to get excited, "Then I will go home to discuss with my parents and see if I can get married two years later... , I’m still getting better grades than Chunmiao, and it’s really a pity to lose my studies now."
"Then you two continue to study. Even if you study for another three years, you will only be eighteen, and you won't be able to delay talking about your in-laws."
Although Mei Xiaoran tried his best to persuade these two cousins to continue to school, but she has nothing to do with those cousins who are about her age. Even if the girl is ten years old even if she is older than her husband’s family, she definitely can’t persuade others. Now I am going to study.
Among them, a cousin named Mei Chunsu looked at her enviously: "I wanted to know so many things, and I wouldn't talk about her husband's family anymore. Unfortunately, it's already late. I'm nineteen. My family is sure. Won't let me go to school now."
"As long as you want to learn, you can do it whenever you want, even if you can no longer go to school, it will not delay your continued learning. The key depends on your own attitude."
"That's also true. I will also report what you said about TVU. Anyway, our substitute teacher in Zhuangli Elementary School is also a high school student. When I get my diploma, at least I can be a substitute teacher."
(End of this chapter)