For example, those who want to marry a daughter require a lot of betrothal gifts, and they are more than the man can afford. If he can't afford it, they all fall through in the end.
Of course, betrothal gifts have existed since ancient times, but marrying a daughter does not mean selling her. Just ask for some appropriate amount, unless the groom's family can afford it and is willing to give it.
Of course, some men also want to get a wife without spending any money. If they ask for a small amount of betrothal gift, they are said to be selling their daughters.
Anyway, the world is a big place and there are people for everything. Being willing to do so is the best.
"My family doesn't have the idea of a powerful or business marriage, but they still hope that I can find a family with a family background that is not too different. They say that if the family background is too different, it will be easy for things to happen." Zhang Zicen also said said.
"If there is a big difference in family status, it is indeed easy to have conflicts of views, especially when women are strong and men are weak. Most men have strong self-esteem and are generally unwilling to find a woman whose family background is much better than their own. Because he will feel inferior to others. Even if these men are willing because of money or temporary love for you, if they are not capable of getting better, they will easily cause psychological distortion in the process of life in the future, so they will make Something that betrays you. Of course, there are good men, but this is too rare for this real society. You will never know who he is until it happens." Gu Ning said.
In this society, after all, there are more people who care about family status than people who don't care about family status. Therefore, many things cannot be idealized, and most of them must be realistic.
For example, after she got together with Leng Shaoting and learned Leng Shaoting's identity, he asked Leng Shaoting if his family would object to this sentence, because she also had her own self-esteem and did not want to be looked down upon. .
Of course, her self-esteem is directly proportional to her ambition. Since she doesn't want to be looked down upon, of course she will improve her life value.
Of course, it didn't matter to her if Leng Shaoting's family looked down upon her. She only cared about Leng Shaoting's attitude.
If the Leng family looked down on her and didn't agree with them being together, but as long as Leng Shaoting protected her and stayed with her no matter what, she wouldn't care about the Leng family's attitude and would be with Leng Shaoting.
As for people who look down on her, she can just treat them as strangers.
However, if Leng Shaoting had any hesitation in this matter, she would turn around and leave without any hesitation. This was also due to her strong self-esteem.
"I feel it! Nowadays, men are more showy than women. Let's talk about what I have met around me! As for women, once they like it, most of them don't care so much about the man's conditions, but men! They don't need to compare with the woman's conditions. He is good, but he must not be bad, and he also has various requirements for the woman. He hopes that you can take care of the family, and that you can make money, give birth to and take care of the children, and also serve your parents-in-law. It is not marrying a wife, but looking for a salaried wife. A senior nanny. One of my cousins got divorced last week. My cousin just disliked my cousin working at home and not taking care of the family. However, the year my cousin gave birth to the baby, she didn’t go to work, but she kept the house in order. , and was criticized for being at home all day long without going to work, saying how tired he was by himself and so on. So a man! He can never be satisfied. Then my cousin could not bear it anymore, filed for divorce, left the house, and only wanted to have children. ." Zhang Zicen said that she herself felt that her cousin was too inhumane, and when she learned about this incident, she even scolded him!
Of course, she was just complaining in her own home. After all, no matter how bad someone is, it's still their business, and she doesn't have the right to scold them in front of them.
However, her mother told her cousin directly, but her cousin still felt that she was not wrong, and then her mother ignored it.
Just two days ago, her cousin called her mother and asked her to help with something, but her mother refused.
Although they are cousins, her mother's cousin has a bad character and her mother doesn't want to get close to him.
"I hope we can all meet a good man! Of course, no one is perfect, and he doesn't need to be perfect. At least he has upright views and good character. He just needs to be considerate and caring about his wife. He is a warm man. It's a rare animal!" Song Miaoge sighed after hearing this. She was really worried that she would meet a scumbag!
After eating, everyone didn't go anywhere else to play. They all went home. Because it was still early, Gu Ning didn't see them off. Because it was still early, there was nothing unsafe. However, some accidents happen just when you think they are impossible.
Gu Ning watched them take a taxi and leave before leaving.
But ten minutes later, Gu Ning received a call from Zhang Zicen. However, the caller did not speak to the receiver, but she heard her talking to the driver.
"Master, you're on the wrong track! I remember it's not a fork in the road here!" Zhang Zicen said, his voice sounded calm, but Gu Ning could still hear that he was nervous.
When Gu Ning heard this, he immediately felt that something was wrong, so he immediately asked Gao Yi to turn around and chase in the direction where Zhang Zicen had just left, and then continued to listen to the voice on the phone.
"Because there is a lot of traffic ahead, it will be faster to go around this way," the driver said.
Zhang Zicen is from the capital. She is not completely familiar with the capital, but the road from the city to her home is a place she often visits. Of course she will know whether it is the way home.
So she knew very well that this road was not going to her house at all, so she felt that she might be kidnapped.
"Oh! Okay!" Zhang Zicen agreed without asking again, then hung up the phone and shared his location with Gu Ning on WeChat.
Zhang Zicen was very nervous and scared, and his body was trembling, but she was forced to hold it back and tried his best to make it look like nothing was wrong.
But because Gu Ning knew about her situation, she knew that Gu Ning would come as soon as possible, so she could barely hold back her fear.
From time to time, the driver looked at Zhang Zicen behind him from the middle rearview mirror. Seeing Zhang Zicen's calm look, he thought she believed him.
And seeing that she wasn't playing with her phone, I wasn't too worried about who she was talking to on her phone.
Gao Yi followed the address shared by Zhang Zicen and ran all the way, running through several red lights. Now it was more important to save people, but he couldn't care about so much.
Because Gu Ning and Zhang Zicen separated not long ago, and the driver's speed was within the speed limit, but Gu Ning's car was twice as fast as him, so after ten minutes, Gu Ning approached the car with Zhang Zicen. Take a taxi.
(End of chapter)