Xia Jinyuan, who wanted to plan for Ye Jian, spoke on the phone for more than two hours. Several times the train passed through the tunnel and the signal was interrupted. After that, he immediately called back to continue preaching.
Ye Jian listened very carefully. If she hadn't had a good memory, she wanted to take out the notebook and write them down one by one.
And Xia Jinyuan deliberately set aside one morning in order to pass on all his experience to Ye Jian. For this reason, he also poured three glasses of water in advance and put it on the desk. When it comes to dry mouth, no need to get up and pour water. You can take it without any delay.
"When you arrive at the new company, you are an instructor again. The first impression you give to the soldiers is very important. Don't get too close because they will think that you are easy-going and talkative. The superiors who are easy-going and talkative in the army will often bring out a litter of skirmishers."
"It can be strict, but it can't be rigid and strict. You must be tough when all means should be tough, especially when it comes to principles, disciplines, and rules that must be rigid, irrelevant, and humane."
"You don't need to stick to your own opinions. We can listen to the opinions that should be listened to. Remember not to let the soldiers lead the nose and make big taboos. Don't let the soldiers think that you have no opinion and you can deal with things at will. Good soldiers have good soldiers!"
"Every soldier has shortcomings and strengths. The first thing you have to do is to find out the temperament, shortcomings, and strengths of all soldiers one by one! Once the opponent tries to provoke the authority as an instructor, directly hit its shortcomings and attack the instructor at once. There will never be future troubles."
"During training, you are a soldier’s instructor, build prestige, and let them know awe. In life, you become a soldier’s friend, build trust, cultivate comradeship, and let them know that you are a good instructor, not just being strict. If even life is strict, it is not a good instructor, but a harsh and petty instructor, which makes soldiers disgusted."
"Remember, you are a general, he is a soldier, and the relationship can be good enough to be like brothers and sisters, but you must let the soldiers know that no matter how good the relationship is, you are a general. As long as they make mistakes, they will punish them without mercy."
"After the past, don't hide your strength like before. You must make a move when it is time to make a move. You have to shock them to convince them."
"There is no need to be humble. There is no need. The military department will send you to lead the new company. What you are interested in is your ability. You are too modest, maybe you are hypocritical."
"I'm not too worried about anything else. I'm most worried about your modesty. Remember, don't be modest when you arrive in the army. Soldiers who don't want to fight for the first place are not good soldiers!"
At this time, the phone body was already a bit hot. Ye Jian finished listening with her left ear and switched to listening with her right ear. Xia Jinyuan gave up until the battery power of the phone was really hard to maintain.
After two hours of preaching, all that should be taught was finished, and Xia Jinyuan also thought that he could hang up.
"When you arrive in a new place, take good care of yourself. If you are wronged, don't hold it alone. You and me. If you have any wrongs, just tell me, don't hide your heart, which is not conducive to the development of physical and mental health."
Hearing this, Ye Jian, who had a serious face, raised the corners of her mouth slightly, like the clear lotus petals covered in morning dew in the blue waves, and instantly sat on the opposite bed. .
"When did you see that I was wronged and did not say anything? Was it possible before, but now, it is impossible. It is not my style to say nothing if I have been wronged."
In this life, the military career changed Ye Jian's destiny, and also completely changed Ye Jian's temperament.