"Ah?" Zhou Litao was still a little confused.
"It's not a story, it's just the girl's chat history." Su Yun smiled and said, "Your situation is exactly the same as the chat history."
Zhou Litao was speechless. He had already realized that his previous actions were all self-indulgent.
"A school girl told her best friend that a little boy confessed to her." Su Yun said, "Of course the result was a direct rejection. The girl asked in distress, doesn't he cherish the eight years of friendship?"
"Is it over?" Zheng Ren just sat down and took the posture of listening to the story, but he didn't expect that it was already over as soon as it started.
"Yes, how long are you prepared to listen to such a sad story?" Su Yun glanced at Zheng Ren with disdain.
Zheng Ren looked at Zhou Litao.
Not to mention, although I don’t know if what Su Yun said is fabricated, the people and things in it are very similar to Zhou Litao’s situation.
"Mr. Zhou, I'm just bored and want to chat with you, but you treat me as your lover. Can you tell me if it's your fault?" Su Yun asked.
"Not necessarily." Zheng Ren said: "It's different from the story you told. Mr. Zhou, the girl asked first."
"The meaning is the same. He must have expressed a certain intention before the girl asked." Su Yun said: "Didn't you hear what Mr. Zhou said just now? She forgot to say something, so she asked me. This sentence , is the Spring and Autumn style of writing, you have to analyze it carefully."
Zheng Ren knew that Su Yun had guessed it by looking at Zhou Litao's expression.
This was not Zheng Ren's domain, and his mind was in a mess. And the most important thing is that Zheng Ren is not interested. Girlfriends just fall from the sky.
Well, this was what Cao Xueqin said.
"Mr. Zhou, let me tell you simply. I don't care what you think." Su Yundao said.
Zhou Litao nodded frequently.
"First of all." Su Yun squeezed Zheng Ren away, sat opposite Zhou Litao, and looked into his eyes, "To be honest, everyone has needs. You may fall in love at first sight, but in fact, you just fall in love with each other. This metaphor is rather corny, but it’s the basic meaning.”
"You have your basic needs, but do you know the basic needs of a girl?"
Zhou Litao looked confused.
"You are just trying your luck." Su Yundao said: "The first thing I taught you was to go to the gym and bring something that can express that you are a 912 doctor. Why do I say that?"
"Well… "
"Show me that you are a young talent in my big 912. If a girl likes to be steady and down-to-earth, and likes to invest in potential stocks, she will naturally not refuse your invitation. At least she can get to know you better."
"Look at you, you don't even have to say your horoscope, but you have to show your love in public, have you been kicked in the head by a donkey?"
"Brother Yun, what do you think girls need?" Zhou Litao asked blankly.
"Hobby." Su Yun said: "Look at what she needs. If you like to play, if you think you can, play with others. If you want a stable life, you should show your stable future and unlimited hope. If you love money, … Forget it, you can’t afford to support this kind of person.”
"..." Zhou Litao felt that Su Yun was right. He had never paid attention to this.
"Meeting a girl's needs is just the first step to make her notice you. The rest is to cultivate common interests, and... I won't tell you this yet, just do the first step."
Zhou Litao tasted Su Yun's words and felt they were so profound and reasonable.
Zheng Renze was disdainful in his heart. Everyone depends on fate and fate. There are so many great principles that can be said.
I'm really afraid that Su Yun will lead Zhou Litao astray.
"You take a pen, and you have to memorize what I'm going to tell you next. Only by thinking about it over and over can you put it into practice. It's like learning surgery. If you don't forget to think about it, you can do it on stage? If you take this opportunity and mess it up, no one will let you be a magician in the future." Su Yundao said.
Zhou Litao was completely bewitched by him. He took out a ball pen and an A4 paper from his pocket, as if he was listening to the teacher's lecture in class.
"There is fate between people. The so-called clever wife often sleeps with her stupid husband, and a thousand-mile marriage is tied by a thread." Su Yundao.
Zheng Ren was stunned for a moment, this guy knew so much and still talked so much nonsense.
"I'll tell you what kind of girls are not interested in you so that you can save time." Su Yun's finger was still raised and he simply didn't put it down.
"I replied to your WeChat message without any care at all, like uh-huh, oh, okay, etc. In the past few years, I said I was sleepy, so it didn't matter if I went to take a shower or something like that."
Zhou Litao quickly recorded what Su Yun said, as if it were some kind of martial arts secret.
"The polite language seems to be a reply and shows politeness. In fact, it is not interested at all. If things go on like this, people will not reply to you. You can tell whether you are embarrassed or not."
"Oh, I remember it." Zhou Litao seemed to have remembered something, paused for a moment, and then started recording quickly again.
"Second point, kind girls don't like to reject someone directly. One thing, you can give it a try, which can be regarded as a standard."
Zhou Litao's ears stood up.
"When she posts to Moments, don't just like it. That can only express the aloofness that you have seen it but don't need to reply. You are not me, and you absolutely cannot seek death like this." Su Yundao said: "You are posting pictures in her circle of friends." If I talk to you next time and reply to you, I can continue to contact you. If you don’t reply, forget it.”
"Uh..." Zhou Litao was startled, "Brother Yun, this is too strict."
"Strict? Give each other some dignity and decency, okay? This is not strict." Su Yundao said: "If you don't like it, you can't say it directly. You have to find a way to get off. The deeper meaning is that as long as you don't be obsessed with sex, you can Feel it.”
Zhou Litao was confused for a moment, but he still recorded what Su Yun said honestly.
"Third point, after passing the test of the circle of friends, you can chat with her. But pay attention to the frequency and rhythm... "
"What is rhythm?"
"Don't chat too frequently, and don't go too long without chatting. This depends on your personal understanding. Every situation is different." Su Yun's expression was still serious.
Zheng Ren sighed, it would be great if Su Yun could be so serious about every operation.
"Oh." Zhou Litao obviously didn't understand, and just said "Oh" in a neutral tone.
"If you have a happy chat, you have reached the most critical step and a half." Su Yun said: "Ask her out. If a girl is not interested in you, she will not dress up carefully and go to the date with enthusiasm."
"The word "generous" is not used well." Zheng Ren interrupted: "President Zhou's conditions are pretty good."
"Everything is difficult at the beginning. You can see how annoying this guy is when he just messed up a friendship of seven or eight years." Su Yun said without any secret.
Zhou Litao almost stuffed his head under the table.