"Yeah, I thought so too," Gu Yiman nodded, "But she said that people don't know that she is not in pain or itching, jumping around, and living very well. Others think that she has surgery and needs to eat The medicine needs to be checked regularly, and maybe there will be a relapse. If you think she has some serious disease, you will feel sorry for her, and she doesn't want others to feel sorry for her."
Ling Yue: "... Others can't care about their own affairs, so who has the time to care about what's going on with her?"
"Should it be like this?" Gu Yiman said, "I also persuaded her, I said, people live in this world, the world is their own and has nothing to do with others, we should live in our own world, not in in the eyes of others.
When I said this, she laughed, and she said, she has seen a lot of chicken soup in this area, and many, many chicken soups say that people should live for themselves, don’t care about other people’s eyes, go their own way and let others talk about it, Don't care about what other people think, but why are there so many chicken soups of this type
It is because this is a common problem of human beings that most people can't ignore other people's gazes, so there are so many chicken soups, urging people not to care about other people's gazes. "
She shrugged: "When she said this, I suddenly felt that those who are prostitutes, mistresses, and mistresses are very strong psychologically, because they have managed to ignore the eyes of the world."
"..." Ling Yue didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
What and what
He rubbed the back of Gu Yiman's head in a funny and helpless way: "You are right, but in this respect, I still think that human beings should care about other people's eyes. If you don’t want it, this person is hopeless.”
"Isn't that contradicting my argument?" Gu Yiman tilted his head and looked at him puzzled, "I advise my friend to live in his own world and don't care about other people's eyes!"
"These are two different things," Ling Yue said earnestly, "Your friend's matter is not a matter at all, she is simply thinking too much, and she is moaning for nothing.
The prostitutes, mistresses, and mistresses you mentioned have abandoned the dignity that is more important than life. They have no self-esteem and no self-love. These are completely two concepts.
Who can say that a sick person has no self-respect or self-love
What's more, your friend's illness has been cured, and he is no different from a normal person. I really can't figure out why he is so unhappy. "
"I can't figure it out either, but she is my friend. She is not happy, and I am not happy either. I just want to relieve her and make her happy." Gu Yiman propped his chin, feeling very melancholy, "But, she is eloquent. Well, I couldn't convince her at all, instead I was influenced by her and thought about a lot of issues that I hadn't thought about before.
For example, what are we living for? Although we are all living happily and happily now, no matter how much we cherish and how reluctant we are, our happiness and joy cannot be kept.
Although we are all healthy and active now, but the illnesses come like mountains, and no one knows whether we will get sick one day.
You see, we are sitting here blowing the wind and looking at the stars, how happy are we
However, no one knows whether we can be so healthy and happy all our lives.
Maybe, one day, I suddenly fell ill
No one can guarantee that they will not get sick all their lives, can they? "
(end of this chapter)