Human nature is very complicated
"When I was young, I always wanted to compare and beat others?" Gu Yiman thought for a while, "I didn't think she was a person who wanted to compare herself. She didn't like to be compared with others. She lived like a fish."
"That's the appearance," Ling Yue said firmly, "If you don't like comparing yourself with others, why would you care what others say about her
In her subconscious mind, she must be strong, so she always thinks about what others will think of her.
But, in fact, everyone's mental strength is limited, everyone can't care about their relatives and friends, who has time to talk about her
She is purely thinking too much on her own and disturbing others. "
"Do you want to be strong?" Gu Yiman was lost in thought, "I don't think she is too strong, she has such a good personality, I have a special chat with her, we can talk about everything, I really like her!"
"If you have a good character, you will pay too much attention to other people's eyes," Ling Yue said, "People with a bad character usually don't care about face, so why would they care about what others say and evaluate
Caring too much about other people's eyes is a burden to oneself and a negative emotion.
It is not easy for a person to come to this world. On the premise of not destroying social morality or affecting the interests of others, I do not recommend that one care too much about other people's evaluations.
Shameless is not a good word, but for people who want to face too much, being shameless is a burden. I suggest that such people should show some shame appropriately.
If she can do it, I believe, she will live an easier life than before. "
Gu Yiman thought for a while, then nodded, "Well, okay, I will tell her Brother Yue what you said, and I hope she can gain something after listening."
"It's hard, because there's a saying that read a lot of chicken soup, but still can't live a good life," Ling Yue fondled rubbing the back of her head, "There are many things that she needs to figure out on her own, and she can figure it out, you say No matter how many, she can't do anything if she doesn't understand.
Of course, it is also useful for you to chat with her and explain her away. You may not be sure, which point of her was touched by any sentence of yours, and she was enlightened
Also, if she is too worried that others will pity her, you can still persuade her that there are too few perfect people and things in this world. You tell her not to use her only imperfection to compare other people's perfection, you let her try Think about the imperfections of others, and she will find that, in fact, the world is fair. "
"That's right! That's right!" Gu Yiman nodded vigorously in agreement, "Especially after our family opened an office, I feel this the most.
Let's not talk about others, let's just talk about Su Yinghou, the first client of our firm. In the eyes of others, how happy and lucky is Su Yinghou
Beautiful, good figure, famous and rich, liked by countless people.
But, in fact, she was unlucky.
Her husband raised an illegitimate child outside, and her daughter pushed her to the ground for the sake of the illegitimate child, which was disobedient and unfilial.
However, others only saw the glamorous side of Su Yinghou, and only a few people knew about Su Yinghou's unspeakable secrets.
Therefore, how can there be so many perfections in this world, and more are not enough to be humane to outsiders! "
"Human nature is very complicated," Ling Yue shook his head and chuckled, "Some people who don't know that Su Ho is secretly married and has a daughter, when they mention Su Ho, they will say, so what if Su Ho is rich, famous, and beautiful
She doesn't even have a child, she is not perfect, and her life is not as happy as ordinary people. "
(end of this chapter)