Stupid people have stupid blessings
Gu Yiman looked at Xie Hewu in surprise.
She didn't expect that Xie Hewu would have such thoughts, and even be sad.
Seeing Gu Yiman's surprised gaze, Xie Hewu smiled and rubbed her hair: "There is nothing to be surprised about. This is a convention passed down for thousands of years. Of course I can disobey these conventions, or even treat them as nothing, but What about my brother's future wives
I am a married woman, bossing them around as a master, what do you think they will think? "
"It doesn't have to be bossy," Gu Yiman said, "Isn't it good for everyone to live in peace?"
"Yes, it's good to coexist peacefully," Xie Hewu said, "But there must still be a limit.
For example, when I was not married, I was the head of the family, and I could represent the Xie family whenever a woman needed to appear in the family.
But if I get married and my younger brother marries a wife, then, is there any occasion for the Xie family to make an appearance? Tell me, is it me or my younger brother's wife? "
Gu Yiman: "..."
Looking at Gu Yiman's clean eyes, Xie Hewu laughed and rubbed her head again: "Of course you don't have any troubles about this, you don't like to show your face the most.
But what if it is a strong personality
Like me, now, my two younger brothers listen to me.
If, in the future, they get married and I get married, the Xie family will still be in charge of me. Do you think they will feel comfortable? "
She sighed: "I don't want to admit the saying that a married daughter is water that is thrown out.
However, if the married daughter does not regard herself as the water to be thrown out, but still regards herself as the master of the family as before, it is easy to have conflicts with sister-in-law and younger siblings.
Therefore, it is very important to grasp this degree. Don't treat yourself too much as an outsider, but don't treat yourself too much as an outsider. "
Gu Yiman: "..."
She didn't quite agree with her sister's point of view, but she didn't know how to refute it.
Seeing her tangled face, Xie Hewu smiled and pinched her cheek: "You don't have to be so sad, you don't have such troubles.
You said, in your life, you will either not marry, or you will marry Brother Yue.
If you don't get married for the rest of your life, it goes without saying that you will be the darling of your aunt and uncle all your life, and your eldest cousin will raise you as his daughter, so he will spoil you for the rest of his life.
And these cousins are all shrewd people, and they will definitely be able to handle the relationship between you and their wives well.
If you marry Brother Yue, then you are remarried from your natal family and back to your natal family, and you are still the master, not the water that was thrown out. What do you have to worry about? "
"Sister, I think what you said is wrong," Gu Yiman said, "According to your argument, Brother Yue is still an adopted son!
You know that in the minds of many people, adopted children have no status.
Although our family is different, others may not know it! "
"Are you stupid?" Xie Hewu looked at her like a fool, "Brother Yue, is that an ordinary adopted son? Brother Yue is the future head of the Xiang family, right
Go inquire and find out, who dare not take the future head of the Xiang family seriously? "
Gu Yiman: "...that's right, I always forget Brother Yue's surname is Xiang..."
Xie Hewu knocked her on the forehead: "How else can you say you are stupid! But...it's also pretty good, stupid people have stupid blessings!"
Gu Yiman: "..."
Let her treat her as her sister and praise her!
(end of this chapter)